Thursday, April 24, 2008
Dr. Charles Stanley
Monday, April 21, 2008
Of Quirks And Things
Archived Comments
WaterBoy ~
What constitutes a quirk? Something found quirky in one culture is perfectly normal in another.
Growing up, I was taught to use my fork in my left hand to hold my food while I cut it with the knife in my right, then put down the knife and switch the fork to my right hand to pick up the food.
But when I got to Belgium, I oftentimes saw people there also with the fork in the left hand and the knife in the right, but they didn't switch hands with the fork nor put the knife down.
What a quirky way to eat, I thought...until I tried it myself and realized it was much more efficient; I now employ that method myself.
So is it quirky? My family would say yes, but my former neighbors would say no.
Apr 22, 2008 16:52
AJW308 ~
I too count repeating patterns, sometimes looking for patterns in the patterns. I think this is more of a way to kill time and occupy my brain than OCD activity.
At times, driving, I'll have a convienent bug spot on my windshield that turns into a gun sight and me a fighter pilot. I'll be vigilant on my situational awareness (this makes me a better driver, don't cha know), check my 6 and my blind spots and get sight pictures of 'enemy' drivers heads, tires, radiators, etc.
Other times, I'll see interesting trees, clouds, buildings, bridges and figure the optimal way to model them in CAD or Povray. Clouds are next to impossible.
Apr 22, 2008 17:18
Taylor ~
What constitutes a quirk? Something found quirky in one culture is perfectly normal in another.
I'd say a quirk is something that an individual will do that arises solely from that individual's brain and personality and serves no practical purpose. It is a peculiar behavior or mannerism.
So is it quirky? My family would say yes, but my former neighbors would say no.
I'd say you've adopted the Continental style of using the knife and fork. Not a quirk at all. Most of us left-handed people use will do the same thing. I certainly do and agree that it is much more practical.
If that is your only "quirk", you're just weird, WaterBoy... :)
Apr 22, 2008 23:51
Taylor ~
I'll have a convienent bug spot on my windshield that turns into a gun sight and me a fighter pilot.
You're all male, AJW. And that sounds more of a Walter Mittyish type of fantasizing than a quirk.
Apr 23, 2008 00:08
Difster ~
I can identify with the knife and fork thing. Being ambidexterous but left dominant I would frequently switch my fork between right and left just because I truly didn't care which one I used. It drove my mother nuts and she made me choose one. Now I use my right to hold my fork and my left to hold my knife unless I just happen to pick them up that way.
When I'm driving, I sometimes imagine what would happen if a given car were to blow out a tire or if a plane were trying to make an emergency landing on the freeway while I was on it. When I'm in public I imagine what would happen if a store I was in were robbed or someone started shooting up a plaza. Of course I'm always the hero in those scenarios (after making sure Little Dif is in safe).
I'm sure I have lots of little quirks that I don't even realize just because they exist in my own head and I've never verbalized them.
People with no apparent quirks concern me. You gotta watch out for them.
Oh, when I was in highschool, I used to have a little game whereby I would try to make it across each street (some of them very busy) without having to stop for cross traffic. Nearly got hit a couple of times and a few people lost some tread and wore down their brake pads ;)
Apr 23, 2008 01:28
WaterBoy ~
Taylor: "If that is your only "quirk", you're just weird, WaterBoy..."
I had previously mentioned on someone else's blog about tending to view life through a systems analysis lens, mentally breaking things down into systems and processes. It's turned out to be pretty handy for my career, so I don't know if it qualifies as a quirk or a skill.
But I'll still take the "weird" label as a compliment nonetheless. 8)
Apr 23, 2008 03:21
WaterBoy ~
Difster: "People with no apparent quirks concern me. You gotta watch out for them."
I dunno. I think I'd rather have too few than too many; then you're considered either 'eccentric' if you're rich or 'wacko' if you're not.
Apr 23, 2008 03:24
Taylor ~
I agree that too many noticeable quirks would make someone appear to be a bit nuts.
I'm eccentric in many ways in that I do my own thing, don't follow the herd and couldn't care less if I fit in or not. I eschew many of the popular cultural views, practices and attitudes these days. I don't consider these as quirks, but my general individualism and personality.
Apr 23, 2008 03:40
Taylor ~
Difster, you actually made people screech on their brakes? A quirk should not be something that inconveniences or distresses anyone else. That's just being a bloody nuisance.
Apr 23, 2008 03:48
Difster ~
Of course I could be nuisance, I was a TEENAGE BOY!
Apr 23, 2008 06:52
Taylor ~
True. I've said it before and I'll say it again. All teenagers should be shipped off to an island and not allowed to return to society until they turn 20.
Apr 23, 2008 07:04
Spacebunny ~
Taylor, those aren't quirks. You are a game player, you turn many (all?) tasks, but especially the mundane ones, into games of one sort or another.
WB - there are tremendous differences in european and american table etiquette. I'm on an expat forum and we've had a few lengthy and amusing conversations about it everything from which hand you hold your fork in to elbows on the table.
Apr 24, 2008 07:01
Taylor ~
Hey, Spacebunny. I didn't realize I was a game player, but I do often turn mundane activities into games, if my mind isn't off thinking about something else. But one thing I'm not is a daydreamer, never have been.
You didn't mention any of your quirks. Spacebunny, the quirkless one. :)
Apr 24, 2008 09:37
Spacebunny ~
I didn't list mine because haloscan has a character limit ;)
Apr 24, 2008 13:11
Jamie R ~
*evil bitches*
Oh I thought out loud?
Apr 24, 2008 13:21
WaterBoy ~
SB: "...there are tremendous differences in european and american table etiquette."
Very true, in the places I visited. My experience in England is minimal, but the impression I had is that their mannerisms are similar to our own, and quite different than on the Continent. Which makes sense, if one's heritage is British.
Another example: I had read that Italians typically don't use spoons to assist in eating string pasta, as I was taught...any observations you can share?
Apr 24, 2008 21:49
Taylor ~
...elbows on the table
I was taught that you never put your elbows on the table and you never put your hands on your lap. You may only place your forearms on the table. And the napkin goes on the lap, never across your front.
I had read that Italians typically don't use spoons to assist in eating string pasta, as I was taught
I was taught to use the spoon as well. You pick up a few strings of pasta with the fork, then raised above the plate, you place the fork tines against the spoon and twirl the fork, entwining all the pasta. Using the plate instead of a spoon is simply barbaric!
Persians have a unique etiquette. They eat everything with a spoon and use the back of the tines of the fork to push the food into the spoon. This is more practical for them since most of their dishes are rice dishes.
Apr 24, 2008 23:45
Taylor ~
I didn't list mine because haloscan has a character limit
Now I can understand that haloscan's character limit would be insufficient for Jamie to list his quirks, but in your case, Spacebunny, I think you're just pleading the 5th or wisely realize that anything you say, CAN and WILL be used against you...
Apr 24, 2008 23:50
JRL ~
That coasting quirk is great Taylor.
Me, I don't know. I like to smoke a cigar with some bourbon at hand, sitting in my plastic Adirondack chair on the back patio with a nice pile of coals in the fire pit and the stars overhead. I don't see any of my neighbors doing that. Must be a quirk.
Apr 26, 2008 03:24
Taylor ~
That's not a quirk, JRL. You appreciate the simple things in life - some quiet time with a good drink and a smoke, watching the stars, the fresh air, the sounds of nature, a crackling fire. I'll do that quite often myself. I especially enjoy it in the summer right after I've mowed the grass.
I agree that this is probably not something most people will do anymore. It's like they need to be constantly plugged into the collective, via television, cellphone, iPod, Internet...
Apr 26, 2008 04:26
JRL ~
Oy. Don't get me started on TV. Internet, however, is a sacred duty.
Well, several glasses later and the pile of coals glowing like the cracks of mount doom, we've come to the time I've reserved for telling the world how much I love it. Almost makes working with those morons all week worthwhile. Taylor, you're a sweetheart. And now I've dropped my glass dammit, but the wife has brought me a kit-kat blizzard and the fire is roasting my legs and I feel just a bit of alright. Lord bless you Taylor, enjoy your weekend. And I'm still trying to think of a quirk. Everything I do seems so normal to me.....
Apr 26, 2008 06:12
Taylor ~
Lord bless you too, JRL. May you always be able to sit peacefully and enjoy just being alive.
Everything I do seems so normal to me.....
There's nothing wrong with that. There are far too many weirdos in this world today.
You and your wife have a good weekend, too. Wish I had someone to bring me a kit-kat blizzard...
Apr 26, 2008 08:02
Wendy ~
Most of us left-handed people
Ah, lefties. We are the true minority.
Hmm. Quirks. Does liking guy sports, guy jobs and guy hobbies count?
May 01, 2008 19:19
Crom ~
Mine is the locking quirk. I will be in the driveway, backing out and stop to ask myself if I locked the deadbolt.
I also tend to hit the lock button on my keychain to lock my truck more than once, and more than once I have backtracked in the parking lot mashing the button until I hear the honk indicating that it is indeed locked.
I have a friend who goes through these elaborate routines to leave her house every morning, she has something tantamount to a ritual to leave her house every morning.
I am not that far gone... yet.
May 06, 2008 20:45
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